Odd as it may seem the hotwifing benefits you’ll experience if you can get your wife to take the plunge into the cuckolding lifestyle far outweigh the risks and disadvantages (with one proviso: hotwiving is for couples whose relationship is good but they want to improve it; if your relationship is already sexless and broken, then hotwiving will make things a lot worse).
- Your relationship will improve. You’ll experience more physical and emotional intimacy and you’ll end up having better sex, having it more often and being more adventurous when you do it. I know I speak for other husbands of hotwifes when I say there’s nothing quite so fast to turn me on as when my own hotwife, Josselyn, uses her lover’s name while she’s making love to me.
- Your wife will bloom. This is a hard one to explain and describe, but an easy one to spot. Women love to be found attractive; what’s more they love to be the woman of a strong and confident man. And by being a hotwife, she’s getting the best of both worlds — her lovers build her self-esteem because they find her attractive (you ‘have’ to because you’re her husband, right?); and obviously you must be a strong and confident man to let her go out and spread her wings, so to speak. You’ll notice how she becomes more aware of herself, more sexually adventurous, and starts to take even more pride in her appearance.
- Your own self-esteem will skyrocket. Again, this is a tough one to explain but is something every man I know whose wives go down the hotwifing path. For one thing, you become even more proud of your wife as she does start to bloom and your feelings of love and devotion for her increase. It’s strange, but even though most hotwives husbands have their wives’ permission to sleep with other women, few actually do. Why? Because for man much of the pleasure is in seeing his wife enjoying her own pleasure (and by this I don’t just mean actually watching her with another man — I mean just seeing her doing through life as a newly self-aware and liberated woman).
My wife, Josselyn, and I have been in the hotwife lifestyle for the past 7 years and apart from a few hiccoughs it’s been a lot of fun.
And now we’d like to share our knowledge and experience so you don’t have to make the mistakes we made in the past – because we’ve made them for you.